You can hope and dream and pray and think (a little song is coming to mind) but I just don't think you can prepare enough for marriage. There is something about being in the actual trenches that teaches you what you really need to know. It reminds me of my days in the teaching credential program. We learned lots of techniques and theories and they were all great and helpful. But I had no idea what teaching was really like until I was up in front of that classroom with live children who all had real hearts and minds and...well...ants in their pants! (You know what I mean.)
What I could not have anticipated was how much my husband would help me become a wife. I'm not trying to diminish anything from my mom or other faithful women in my life. Of course I learned much from their counsel and wisdom and still do. But what can I say? I married well, and I couldn't have imagined all that was in store for me just by marrying Kwacha.
So over the next few weeks I'm going to cover a different skill or trait or whatever you want to call it that has started to improve in my life because of Kwacha. Ultimately because of God since He works in Kwacha and in me and He gave Kwacha to me.
The topics I will cover:
(Some are obviously more vital than others and the list below is in no particular order.)
2. Time Management
3. Discipline (Working Out and Eating Healthy)
5. Getting Enough Sleep
6. Raising a Child
So stay tuned. If I have time during Shirley's next nap, I may post one today.
Just a little p.s. I am in no way trying to say that I am a great example in these areas or that I have learned all there is to know. I mean, this should be obvious without me having to state it. I just want to be helpful in the very few small things I have learned in my short time of being a wife.
Thanks for reading!
3 days ago